Different Selling Mediums
Universal Principles vs. Medium-Specific Tactics
Truth: Core selling principles remain the same across all mediums:
- Understand your customer
- Build trust
- Communicate value
- Handle objections
- Close the sale
What Changes: Tactics, timing, and channel-specific best practices.
In-Person Selling
Advantages
Full communication bandwidth
- Body language visible
- Facial expressions clear
- Energy and presence felt
- Immediate feedback
Relationship building accelerated
- Personal connection stronger
- Trust develops faster
- Memorable interactions
Engagement and focus
- Harder for them to multitask
- You have their attention
- Can read the room
Best Practices
Preparation:
- Research thoroughly
- Dress appropriately for their environment
- Bring physical materials (samples, brochures, tablet for demo)
- Plan for technology failures
- Know the location and arrive early
During Meeting:
- Strong handshake (if culturally appropriate)
- Good eye contact (60-70% of time)
- Open body language (uncrossed arms, leaning in slightly)
- Mirror their energy and posture (subtly)
- Take notes on paper (shows respect)
- Use whiteboard for collaborative exploration
- Eliminate distractions (phone on silent, face down)
Presentation:
- Bring them into it: "Can you show me your current process?"
- Use physical props when relevant
- Stand when presenting (more energy and authority)
- Face them, not the screen
- Pause for questions and discussion
Reading the Room:
| Signal | What It Means | Your Response |
|---|---|---|
| Arms crossed | Defensive or cold | Ask engaging question, adjust approach |
| Checking phone | Lost interest | "Is now still a good time?" or change pace |
| Leaning forward | Engaged and interested | Continue, move toward close |
| Looking at door/clock | Want meeting to end | "I know your time is valuable. Let me get to the key point..." |
Common Mistakes
- ❌ Sitting too far away (feels formal and distant)
- ❌ Talking non-stop (should be conversational)
- ❌ Being overly formal when they're casual (or vice versa)
- ❌ Ignoring environmental factors (too cold, noisy, etc.)
Phone Selling
Advantages
Efficiency
- No travel time
- More calls per day
- Reach people anywhere
Focus on voice
- Tone and words are everything
- Can use notes without being obvious
Lower pressure
- Easier to end call than meeting
- More comfortable for some prospects
Best Practices
Preparation:
- Research prospect thoroughly
- Have all materials on screen
- Quiet environment
- Good phone/headset
- Water nearby
Voice Techniques:
- Smile while talking (they can hear it)
- Stand or sit up straight (affects voice quality)
- Vary your pace and tone (monotone kills attention)
- Match their speaking speed
- Use their name frequently
- Pause for emphasis
Structure:
1. Introduction (30 seconds)
"Hi [Name], this is [You] from [Company]. Is this still a good time?"
2. Purpose (30 seconds)
"I wanted to talk about [specific value for them]..."
3. Permission (15 seconds)
"I have three things to cover. Should take about 15 minutes. Does that work?"
4. Discovery/Presentation (10-12 minutes)
[Ask questions, present relevant value]
5. Next Steps (2 minutes)
"Based on this conversation, what makes sense as next step?"
Overcoming Phone Challenges:
| Challenge | Solution |
|---|---|
| Can't see body language | Listen for vocal cues (hesitation, enthusiasm, distraction) |
| Easy to get distracted | Ask engaging questions, vary your tone |
| Hard to build rapport | Use their name, find common ground in conversation |
| Can't show visuals | Share screen, send materials before call |
Phone Selling Don'ts
- ❌ Reading from script (sounds robotic)
- ❌ Eating, typing loudly, other noises
- ❌ Speakerphone (unless absolutely necessary)
- ❌ Interrupting when they speak
- ❌ Long monologues (30 seconds max per point)
Email Selling
Advantages
Scalability
- Reach hundreds of prospects
- Automated sequences possible
- Low time per prospect
Thoughtful communication
- Can craft perfect message
- Recipient reads at their convenience
- Creates documentation trail
Works globally
- Time zones don't matter
- Language barriers reduced (can translate, take time to write)
Best Practices
Cold Email Structure:
Subject Line (Make or break moment):
Bad: "Checking in" / "Quick question" / "Following up" Good: "[Their Company] + [Specific Benefit]"
Examples:
- "Reducing TechCorp's customer onboarding time by 50%"
- "Sarah, thought on your Q3 goals"
- "Alternative to [current tool they use]"
Body (4-6 sentences max):
1. PERSONALIZED OPENER (Shows research)
"I saw your post about [specific thing]..."
2. RELEVANT PROBLEM (They care about)
"Many [their role] struggle with [problem]..."
3. YOUR SOLUTION (Brief)
"We help [target customer] achieve [outcome]..."
4. SOCIAL PROOF (Reduces risk)
"Companies like [similar company] have seen [result]..."
5. CALL TO ACTION (Simple, low commitment)
"Worth a 15-minute conversation?"
Example:
Subject: Reducing DataCorp's customer churn
Hi James,
I saw your article about the challenge of customer retention in SaaS -
the point about post-purchase communication resonated.
Many VPs of Customer Success struggle with identifying at-risk customers
before they churn.
We help companies like yours predict churn with 89% accuracy, giving you
time to intervene. DataLogic reduced churn by 34% in their first quarter.
Worth a 15-minute conversation next week?
Best,
[Your name]
[Phone number]
Follow-Up Sequence:
| Day | Focus | Example |
|---|---|---|
| 0 | Initial value | First email above |
| 3 | Additional value | "Forgot to mention - here's a case study from [similar company]" |
| 7 | Different angle | "Quick question: How do you currently handle [problem]?" |
| 14 | Resource | "Thought you'd find this [report/article] useful" |
| 30 | Break-up email | "Should I close your file?" |
Email Best Practices
Do:
- ✅ Personalize every email (specific to them)
- ✅ Keep it short (under 100 words)
- ✅ One clear CTA
- ✅ Mobile-friendly formatting
- ✅ Professional but warm tone
- ✅ Proofread carefully
- ✅ Include signature with contact info
- ✅ Track opens and clicks
Don't:
- ❌ Mass-send generic emails
- ❌ Write novels
- ❌ Multiple CTAs
- ❌ Attachments in cold emails
- ❌ All caps or excessive exclamation marks!!!
- ❌ Overly casual ("Hey" / "Yo")
- ❌ Pressure ("Limited time!" / "Act now!")
Social Media Selling
LinkedIn Selling
Profile Optimization:
- Professional headshot
- Compelling headline (value you provide, not just title)
- About section tells your story
- Showcase results and social proof
- Active content sharing
Outreach Process:
Step 1: Add Value First
- Comment meaningfully on their posts
- Share their content
- Engage without asking for anything
Step 2: Connection Request
"Hi [Name],
Saw your post about [topic] - really insightful point about [specific thing].
Would love to connect and follow your content.
Best,
[You]"
Step 3: After Connection Wait 24-48 hours, then:
"Thanks for connecting, [Name].
I noticed you're focused on [their goal/challenge]. I work with [similar
people] on [solving that problem].
Would you be open to a brief conversation if I can share some insights?"
Content Strategy:
- Share valuable insights (not sales pitches)
- Tell customer success stories
- Ask thought-provoking questions
- Comment on industry trends
- Be consistently visible
Twitter/X Selling
Best For:
- Tech products
- Thought leadership
- Building brand
- Inbound leads
Approach:
- Share valuable content regularly
- Engage in relevant conversations
- Build audience before pitching
- DM for personalized outreach
- Link to detailed content
Instagram/Facebook Selling
Best For:
- Visual products
- B2C more than B2B
- Brand building
- Community creation
Approach:
- High-quality visual content
- Story selling (behind the scenes)
- User-generated content
- Influencer partnerships
- Messenger for direct outreach
Social Selling Don'ts
- ❌ Immediate sales pitch after connecting
- ❌ Generic copy-paste messages
- ❌ Spamming people's posts with your offer
- ❌ Fake engagement ("Great post! Check out my service...")
- ❌ Being everywhere poorly (better to excel on one platform)
Video Call Selling (Zoom, Teams, etc.)
Advantages
- Face-to-face remotely
- See facial expressions
- Screen sharing capabilities
- Record for later review
- Global reach
Best Practices
Technical Setup:
- Test beforehand (audio, video, screen share)
- Good lighting (face the light source)
- Clean background (or professional blur)
- Eye level camera (not looking up or down)
- Stable internet connection
- Minimize background noise
During Call:
- Look at camera when speaking (not at screen)
- Position yourself in center of frame
- Dress professionally (at least top half)
- Mute when not speaking in group calls
- Use screen share for presentations
- Record (with permission) for review
- Chat feature for links and resources
Engagement Techniques:
- Ask for video on (most people default to off)
- Use polling features
- Breakout rooms for group calls
- Share control for interactive demos
- React features (thumbs up, etc.)
Reading Video Cues:
| Cue | What It Means | Your Response |
|---|---|---|
| Looking away | Distracted or multi-tasking | Ask engaging question |
| Nodding | Agreement and engagement | Continue, note what resonates |
| Arms visible and open | Comfortable and engaged | Good sign, maintain approach |
| Turning camera off | Disengaged or uncomfortable | "Is everything okay? Should we reschedule?" |
Video Selling Don'ts
- ❌ Poor lighting (can't see your face)
- ❌ Messy background (distracting)
- ❌ Looking at screen instead of camera
- ❌ Sharing entire screen (shows everything)
- ❌ Going over time (zoom fatigue is real)
Webinar Selling
Structure
1. Introduction (5 min)
- Who you are (brief credibility)
- What they'll learn
- Housekeeping (mute, Q&A)
2. Content/Value (30-40 min)
- Teach something genuinely valuable
- Not a sales pitch disguised
- Actionable insights
- Real examples and case studies
3. Transition (5 min)
- "Now, let me show you how we can help you implement this..."
4. Offer (10 min)
- Present your solution
- Special webinar-only offer
- Clear call to action
- Q&A
Total: 60 minutes max
Webinar Best Practices
Before:
- Promote via email, social, ads
- Send reminders (7 days, 1 day, 1 hour before)
- Have backup presenter
- Test technology extensively
During:
- Start on time
- High energy (even higher than normal)
- Polls and Q&A for engagement
- Chat moderation
- Screen share slides + camera
- Deliver real value (not 60-min pitch)
After:
- Send recording to all registrants
- Follow up with attendees within 24 hours
- Nurture no-shows separately
- Track who engaged most
Conversion Tips:
- Limited-time offer for attendees
- Bonuses for action during webinar
- Q&A to handle objections live
- Case studies and testimonials throughout
Text/SMS Selling
When to Use
- Scheduling follow-ups
- Quick updates and reminders
- Time-sensitive information
- After permission granted
- Relationship already established
Best Practices
- Always get permission first
- Keep messages brief (1-2 sentences)
- Professional tone (but not stiff)
- Clear purpose
- Easy opt-out
- Appropriate timing (9am-6pm, no weekends)
- Use for coordination, not cold outreach
Example:
"Hi Sarah, confirming our call tomorrow at 2pm.
Here's the Zoom link: [link]. See you then!"
Text Don'ts
- ❌ Cold texting (unless industry norm)
- ❌ Long messages
- ❌ Multiple messages rapid-fire
- ❌ Outside business hours
- ❌ After they've stopped responding
Choosing the Right Medium
Decision Matrix
| Factor | Best Medium |
|---|---|
| Complex, high-value sale | In-person or video call |
| High volume, lower price | Email or phone |
| Geographic constraints | Video, phone, or email |
| Existing relationship | Any, based on their preference |
| Cold outreach | Email or LinkedIn |
| Demo required | In-person or video call |
| Time-sensitive | Phone or text |
Multi-Channel Approach
Most Effective: Use multiple mediums in sequence
Example Flow:
- LinkedIn connection request (Day 1)
- Value-add connection message (Day 3)
- Email with specific value prop (Day 7)
- Phone call (Day 10)
- Video call demo (Day 14)
- In-person meeting to close (Day 21)
Key: Meet them where they are, adapt to their preferences.
Practice Exercises
Exercise 1: Medium Assessment
For your last 10 sales, analyze:
- Which medium was used primarily?
- Did it match the sale type?
- Would different medium have worked better?
- What patterns emerge?
Exercise 2: Multi-Channel Sequence
Design a 30-day outreach sequence using 3+ mediums:
- Day-by-day plan
- Message for each touchpoint
- Transition between mediums
- Success metrics
Exercise 3: Medium Strengths
For each medium, list:
- Your personal strengths in it
- Areas for improvement
- One tactic to test this week
Exercise 4: Video Presence
Record yourself on video call:
- Watch back without sound (body language)
- Listen without video (voice quality)
- Get feedback from colleague
- Identify 3 improvements
Summary
Key Takeaways:
- Core selling principles apply across all mediums
- Each medium has unique advantages and challenges
- Adapt your tactics to the medium, not your strategy
- Multi-channel approaches are most effective
- Meet prospects where they prefer to communicate
Medium Selection Guide:
- Complex B2B: In-person → Video → Phone → Email
- High-volume B2C: Email → Social → Video → Phone
- Relationship-building: In-person → Video → Phone
- Efficiency: Email → Social → Text
Universal Excellence Checklist:
- [ ] Prepared thoroughly (research, materials, tech)
- [ ] Adapted message to medium
- [ ] Used medium's unique strengths
- [ ] Maintained conversational approach
- [ ] Focused on their needs, not features
- [ ] Clear call to action
- [ ] Followed up appropriately
Next Steps:
- Identify which mediums you use most
- Assess your skill level in each
- Choose one to improve this month
- Move to Chapter 09 to learn sales psychology and influence